我不会做的事

我不会做的事,是问你为什么。

为什么要问为什么。你说你需要做好铺陈,然后出走。我说铺陈该做的有这样那样和多多样。没有问为什么要出走。

我发觉人都爱问为什么,对于他人想做的事情好奇多于关心,因为懂了为什么之后就可以凭自己的想像为他人下定论。你没有问我意见,我何必多此一举?绝情?还是给他人一个能自己做决定和不必向他人解释的机会?

为什么要问为什么。懂了之后我并无法帮忙你分担那种感受和内心的挣扎。我任由你做决定,并在你需要朋友时适当地伸出手,可以是拉你一把、推你一把、把你抱住,也可以是给你比个赞。

我不会做的事,是问为什么。

我喜欢这样的我。

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What I would not do, is to ask you WHY.

Why should I? You said you are ready to take the leap, and I said make sure you’ve done the necessity before you take off. But I would never ask you WHY.

Too many people ask WHY, but not for honest love and care, rather to satisfy one’s curiosity, and make further speculation based on the WHY. You have never asked me for opinion, so why should I interfere in a decision you’ve made?

I should never ask WHY, because I can never help with the struggle  you have within. I can only offer you my hand, be it to pull you, to push you, to hold you, or to give you a big thumbs up.

What I would not do, is to ask you WHY.

I am sure you understand.

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